My husband was my only friend in our new town — until we had a baby. She was my ticket to meeting new people.
**Abstract:** The article discusses the author's experience of isolation after moving to a new state, particularly during her pregnancy and the early stages of motherhood. Initially, her husband was her sole companion, a situation exacerbated by the pandemic and the remote, wooded location of her new home. The physical and emotional challenges of pregnancy, including severe morning sickness and exhaustion, further contributed to her seclusion. During the fourth trimester, as she adjusted to life with a newborn, the isolation intensified, especially when her husband returned to work, leaving her with limited adult interaction. However, as the weather improved from winter to spring, the author found opportunities to venture out with her daughter, leading to encounters with other mothers in the town. These interactions, initially centered around their children, gradually evolved into genuine friendships. The author describes how the mutual struggles of motherhood, such as fatigue and the need for companionship, brought these women together. Over time, they formed a supportive network, exchanging phone numbers and organizing regular meet-ups, both with and without the children. The article highlights the transformative role of motherhood in helping the author forge meaningful connections in her new community. It underscores the importance of shared experiences and the natural camaraderie that can arise among mothers facing similar challenges. The author's journey from feeling isolated to finding a supportive group of friends illustrates the power of community and the ways in which children can serve as a bridge to new relationships.
